Should I stay or go? Being too hard or asking for what's right?

i think you should do what ever makes you the happiest. dont really worry about if its gonna hurt him cuz you konw it will and it will probably hurt you at first also. but its all about your future, is he helping you get to where you wanna be..? ... and hes not showing the love you need (male thing = lameness) hopefully as things progress with you guys he will get more sensitive to your needs and wants when it comes to needing to feel specail, and if anything "train" him sounds bad but its a good way to do it. he does something sweet reward him, complement, dinner, message, ..... try turning off the tv every now and then and just sitting out side on a blanket and talk, about your day things that your thinking obut worrys fears anything. its something the bf and i do pretty offten and we truly enjoy it.